What's the definition of "friend"?
I used to think being a friend means knowing every detail of your past, your interest, your "taboo".
And I am wrong.
I can't completely know your past. One of the important reasons is you don't want to bring it up again.
What can I do then? Without any hint about your past, how can one be a friend of another?
Well... I try to accept your very now. Your love, your hatred, your everything, right now, here.
I can't imagine how to be a friend or lover of another in any other way. If you do know what's better to you, please kindly let me know.